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I recently read a book by Sarah Schulman called "Conflict is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility and the Duty of Repair". Basically Schulman's argument is that, in various contexts from romantic relationships to community infighting to international politics, the overstatement of harm is used as a justification for cruelty and for escalating conflict.View all 4 sources